Sri Aurobindo
Letters of Sri Aurobindo
08. Human Relationships in Yoga
Fragment ID: 1601
As for your question, it is a sentimental part of the vital nature that quarrels with people and refuses to speak to them and it is the same part in a reaction against that mood that wants to speak and get the relation. So long as there is either of these movements the other also is possible. It is only when you get rid of this sentimentalism and turn all your purified feelings towards the Divine, 


that these fluctuations disappear and a calm goodwill to all takes their place.