Sri Aurobindo
Letters of Sri Aurobindo
CWSA 35
Departure from the Ashram [23]
I certainly do not wish to “put you in the wrong box”, nor have I an idea or any desire to keep you here against your own inclination or choice. Going or staying is a matter entirely for 
your own decision. If you can stay here with spiritual profit to yourself, we shall be very glad; but if you find that there is nothing to be gained by staying or that you cannot receive anything or that your will is decidedly for the ordinary life, I certainly would not like to put any undue pressure on you to stay against your own real interest or will. You must consider yourself entirely free to shape your own course in life by your own independent choice.
24 May 1935