Sri Aurobindo
Letters of Sri Aurobindo
CWSA 35
The Behaviour of Ashramites [2]
It appears that there are complaints against you from all sides that you are quarrelling with the servants, upsetting the work, 
putting others to inconvenience in order to put your own convenience and arrange things according to your own fancy. This kind of selfishness and quarrelsomeness will not do. You have to consider the convenience of others before yours – especially as you have been given the management of the house. A manager has to consider the convenience of others first and his own last.
5 March 1933