Sri Aurobindo
Letters on Himself and the Ashram
The Complete Works of Sri Aurobindo. Volume 35
The Ashram and Religion
Social Rules, Caste and the Ashram
You must not get upset like this over these things. After all when one comes to an Asram to do Yoga, one leaves social rules, caste, ceremonial purity etc. behind one. Also one tries to practise সমতা [samatā] to all people and all things, because the Divine is everywhere. Why not take that attitude instead of the old one?