Sri Aurobindo
Letters on Himself and the Ashram
The Complete Works of Sri Aurobindo. Volume 35
Human Relations and the Ashram
Right Relations between Sadhaks [5]
What you say is right. Those one lives with have always some ways and manners that do not agree with one’s own and may grate on the mind. To observe quietly and not resent is part of the discipline of life,— not to be moved or affected at all but to see with equanimity the play of one Nature in all is the discipline of sadhana.